The introduction of the "crazy ex-wife"

I am not your average everyday 40 year old woman, I started my family earlier than most, meaning I have a 20 almost 21yr old daughter, and an 18yr old son who is about to graduate.The big difference is that I had a stroke in 2007 that left me with a chronic pain condition. it's called CRPS, and it's nickname is the suicide disease, it's not fun by any means but it is a part of my life and of my family's. Due to that and a few other leftover goodies, I'm a member of the disabled community, but I haven't let it keep me from living a good life. I do all the Stay at home wife\mom things and I was in school for nursing. the last 4 years have been rough though, the kids and I are figuring things out one day at a time, but life seems to keep throwing obstacles in our way. Between a cheating husband, trying to go back to work after 17 years, a bout with breast cancer, 5 surgeries, menopause, divorce, his psycho mistress turned fiance accrding to her, several legal issues, and still doing all of the normal stuff moms do,Just on a fixed income with no help from baby daddy,feeling like the one boob wonder, but told I should be grateful I'm getting anything. We are definitely hanging in there. I've been told time and again I should write a book... I say I've got nothing to lose so why not try blogging about life before I try writing a whole damn book lol. Unfortunately for me I've got to go back to catch you up. I'll do my best to keep it quick but I've been accused of being wordy so buckle up, It might get a lil bumpy.